Etiquette on Giving Your Bridesmaids Their Gifts

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You know that without your bridesmaids, your wedding preparations wouldn?t have gone as painlessly as they have. They were by your side for every dress fitting and vendor meeting and you are grateful for all their hard work. It stands to reason that you want to find the perfect gifts to give them, and that you want to find the right way to present the gifts. Here are some things to keep in mind:

Make the Gift Meaningful

Although there are no set rules as to the best gifts to get your bridesmaids, you can make the gift extra special by choosing something meaningful. You can either choose to find individual gifts for each bridesmaid or give each the same thing. Either way, the gift should convey how thankful you are for all their hard work. Gift ideas include a special piece of jewelry, a personalized keepsake, or even a spa day. You can also give them something useful that they can wear the day of the wedding, such as a jewelry set that matches the dress or even the dress itself if you have the budget for it.

Know How Much to Spend

There are no real rules as to how much you should spend on the gift. However, if you spend too little, you won?t look thankful for all the time and energy they spent helping you get ready for your wedding day. Generally, around $25-$75 is considered a generous gift depending on your budget. However, if you want to spend more money it?s perfectly okay ? it?s just not a requirement.

Make it Personal

Sure, you can always give your bridesmaids a wedding keepsake or a nice piece of jewelry to wear on the big day. However, these gifts are much more meaningful if you take the time to get the items engraved with a special message. If you?ve gotten them something that can?t be engraved, such as a spa day or a vacation package, include a handwritten note with the gift that expresses your thanks.

Find the Right Time to Give

When it comes to giving a gift to your bridesmaids, the timing of when to give it is just as important as the gift itself. For instance, it is generally accepted that waiting until after the wedding to present the gifts is far too late. Most brides tend to give the gift to them during the rehearsal dinner. However, if you wait until the morning of the wedding to give it, that?s perfectly fine, as well, especially if you?re giving them things that need to be worn during the wedding.

Give a Special Toast

One of the reasons why giving the bridesmaids gifts during the rehearsal dinner is optimal is because it gives you a chance to make a special toast to publicly thank them for all their hard work. This will make your bridesmaids feel extra special because you?re giving them a chance to be recognized amongst your family and closest friends. When you give your bridesmaids their gifts, the ultimate goal is to make them feel special. If you follow this advice, they?ll be happy that they put in so much time to help you get married.

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